There is no bone in the soup of our relationship; we have very similar ideology and feel happy together. The world seems so complicated but our relationship seems so easy.
From previous relationships (western women) i learned that to make a woman happy you need to read their thoughts, between their words, consider a million things, and its still not, and never, enough.
Thats where, in this jungle of possibilities and options, it can feel like being a little bug, helpless and lonely because a wrong step can lead from the pink cloud directly into the mouth of a tiger. In our case, not only there are 2 different languages of gender but also mother language and two very different cultural backgrounds. It takes extra energy to communicate and care to avoid misunderstandings: it happens that something is agreed together, only to find out a few days later that we happily agreed on two opposite things.
Anyway… last evening my pearl and i entered a high-speed elevator to discuss-heaven. And today, i come back here to read your comments, pretty amazed to read the result of our talk in your words:
大叔 “Long view is too hard for them to see” “we are realities, they are life surfing, that they just surfing day after day”
shannnb I (like) empty mind most of the time
luv-em i cannot stand for "discussion" on heavy issue all the time, i just want chit chat on sth meaningless
So, woman is just happy about how things are, and even more happy if she doesn’t have to think to much? It sounds to easy, to good to be true. From past experience and the way i grew up, such statements would be considered disrespectful, and they will say i am a silly man to believe it.
But she says its like that, and some of your comments give me confidence that i am not wrong to be blue-eyed. I can just relax and enjoy, a lucky little bug and my dream of love is reality.
Thank you. Love and happy to all of you!