No matter what, it depends how your treat yourself and balance the whole family, don't ever so called "family", you know what I've meant.
The woman you loved and the people you care, have you ever think about how hard could be, some wives run 24/7 work in day time and look after the family after work, even can't sleep well throughout the night.
Men will never understand how stressful they are, they are not on meno pause or menstruation, all tiny things will drive them crazy, such as how to well manage the expenses every month, how to arrange the best school life to the kid if you have one, then you will understand what is what.
Wife - all husbands presume that they all are a supermum and is able to solve problem and well control everything, obviously they are not that strong as you think of.
Women need love and a warm hug in every min, check out a message from Brad Pitt to his wife Angelina, then you will understand how to react in between a couple.